I recently watched the movie “Monster-in-Law” and I still cannot help but laugh with each and every crazy-but-true conditions that happen in real life. There comes a moment in our children’s existence whenever they decide to get married and there’s practically nothing else we may do on the subject of it but to be supportive of them. It is not the case with Jane Fonda as Michael Vartan’s overprotective mother and she would just do anything whatsoever to keep her son from marrying Jennifer Lopez.

I know that it may possibly not be the most common thing for soon-to-be mother and daughter-in-laws to slap and hit each other days before the wedding then instantly just kiss and make-up on the specific day. I’ve practically nothing against in-laws. In fact, determined by my experience, in-laws are usually just as caring and warm as your parents so there exists nothing at all to be scared of and there is undeniably no valid reason to drive them away. They just want to feel that they didn’t lose their son or daughter if the two of you got married, but in fact they gained you like a brand new member of their particular growing household.

I know that some mothers generally are overprotective especially of an only son they’ve got and they might do anything to keep him from marrying a girl. It is because they feel that they will be pushed aside and left forgotten because your son has a new girl that he will be spending the rest of his life with. You really don’t have to think of it that way because that is not necessarily the situation.

Have you ever considered the fact that your son is getting married and that you will soon have a grandchild that you can spoil all over again just like how you did to your son? It is really exciting to have another kid with you while you go shopping or while you roam around just like you did when your son was still a child. Your son would ask you silly questions that would leave you dumbfounded and suddenly, you realize that it’s now your grandson asking you the same silly questions.

And you also have to get acquainted to the bride’s household to keep you company. Don’t worry because you are not the only mother feeling the same way relating to your son getting married. The best thing you could do is to keep yourself preoccupied with the stuff that you love to do. Just think of the stuff that you weren’t able to do because you were too busy thinking how you could call off the wedding and pull your son home with a crowbar.

You are not letting him go but actually, you happen to be letting him welcome a new addition to your family and soon, you are likely to have grandchildren running all over the house and they will have you as their favorite individual in the world for baking the very best cookies and brownies, for not yelling at them whenever they break a vase or for keeping a secret that only the two of you know of.

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